RK, a reader of ApproachAnxiety. Regardless of what she tells you, you want to assume that there are other people in the equation and proceed as such. A verbal commitment or even marriage is no way to guarantee that she will not hook up with other guys or-more importantly-that she will not lose attraction for you. You must continue to keep her interested at all times. One of my basic tactics for relationship management is that I assume there are two other dating prospects for her in the picture. I talk about it here :. My basic assumption is that she is seeing two other guys who do not have any game.
Saw girl im dating with another guy
Or better yet, the wrong person. How you found out 2. How long you have been dating them 4. Gotta love those Martin episodes!
Successful, beautiful, funny, intelligent and classy. And most importantly she likes you.
Nothing sleazy. Now on the other hand lets say that she never gives you any inclination that she dates other men and you happen to run into her on a date.
Then, in my opinion you may have some leverage in being upset with her. The WAY in which you find out does matter! I must mention tho that it is important to ask these questions when you start seeing someone on a consistent basis.
Because lets be honest. Should you be upset?
Well yes only if everyone else except you meaning him and her knew about these acquaintances and still chose to proceed. Yeah not cool. At all.
Then hell yes you should be angry. Now this one is kinda heavy. Only dating for 3 months?
What To Do If She's Seeing Other Guys (+ Dating Advice for Long Distance Relationships)
Been there, done that, got a t-shirt! And as we all know both males and females can be sideline joints these days. Nobody is safe lol.
You have to be very observant when it comes to stuff like this, especially in this dating culture and you MUST ask questions. And not just those vague yes or no questions either. I once met a very handsome guy who happened to have a generally unique name.
So being that I love to google guys I knew I would be able to find info on him because of the unique spelling of his name. So I hit him up like so just for clarification you are single right?
He said yes. But if it were me?
Nov 30, The door to the theater I was waiting for abruptly banged open and I watched as a guy I've been dating came hurrying out with a beautiful girl in tow. the person you're dating Author: Danielle Sepulveres. N. OMG. I just cut a guy off this weekend who I have been casually dating for 8 weeks. We are both divorced (his is more recent than mine) and when we had the talk we both brought up that we had not dated others during this time. He saw me and pulled away from her guy she kept wanting to hug with and stuff. Now in my other, I jumped to us being exclusive and so I was extremely upset. He called me up straight after and apologized for it because he knew that, in another long run, I do want another sort of exclusivity and he knows it was a shock for me to see him on a date.
I'd consider the following. If the one person you're seeing is also seeing other people, it could be that they don't want to be in a relationship. Unfortunately, that instance is probably out of your control, even if you really like the person.
At the same time, I assume those other guys have zero game. I don't need to play my game hard with this girl, but I can't turn into a needy guy or else she'll run to someone else. When you assume this from the start, it makes it a lot less likely that if you hear about another guy, you will all of a sudden start to get jealous and insecure. Jul 18, If the one person you're seeing is also seeing other people, it could be that they don't want to be in a relationship. Unfortunately, that instance is probably out of your control, even if you Author: Elana Rubin. Find a new "new girl". Two dates in with a good connection should be enough time for her to make a decision and she's choosing to try and see you _and_ at least one other guy.
Now's the time to think about what you're comfortable with while dating, and whether or not the prospect of that person seeing other people makes you uncomfortable or jealous. Take a lesson from the person you're dating and try seeing other people as well. You won't know unless you try, and you could end up finding a better situation for yourself by putting yourself out there.
If I'm dating a guy early on and he tells me that he's dating other women I won't be offended. Well maybe I will feel some type of way about it lol but I will get over it. I just hope he understands that it is quite possible that I'm already dating other guys as well. And if he asks and I am, I'll tell him. This girl sounds like she's in highschool! If another guy was telling me that he was dating another girl and how jealous she was of me, I would be hesitant of continuing the relationship. Don't be giving her if she isn't giving it to you. This should not be a competition between you and this other guy. Jul 19, "I had a couple where the girl came back from a week-long trip and left the following weekend open for the guy she had been dating for the last month, and he .
Just because they're dating multiple people, it doesn't mean you have to as well. You could very well just enjoy that person's company, and they may decide they want to be exclusive with you down the line. But maybe you're also not looking for anything that serious and like the arrangement the way it is.
If you're secure with the relationship being open on their end and exclusive on yours, then what works for you, works. No judgment here. It could be that the person you're dating doesn't know you've kind of decided to make things "exclusive" on your end.
If you tell them this piece of information, it may show them that you're more serious about a relationship and make them re-evaluate how they feel for you.