There she is, smiling in her photo, seemingly right at you. You have so much in common, you both even like that same quirky movie that not many people have heard about. You have a new message open, ready to send her the letter that is going to have her look at your profile and realize she wants to get to know you immediately. This is obviously an attractive girl with tons of people messaging her every day. How do you stand out so that she knows to write you back? Be relaxed and straight-forward, letting her know you are interested without sounding like a little kid trying to sound cool to his friends.